Writing is a solitary pursuit.
Just you, your thoughts, and a blinking cursor.
But no writer thrives in complete isolation.
Having a community — whether it’s one trusted critique partner or an entire group of fellow writers — can make all the difference.
My first published novel wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t connected with a writer at a seminar. That one conversation led to years of support and new creative opportunities.
I would never have written my most successful series if I hadn’t pitched the idea to a handful of writers at a conference dinner. They encouraged me from the brainstorming stages all the way through the book launch.
Two authors I interviewed for my podcast — who didn’t know each other — ended up becoming friends, co-writing a series, and eventually moving across the country to collaborate in person.
The right writing friends challenge you, inspire you, and help you keep going when self-doubt creeps in.
Where to Find Your Writing People
You don’t need a massive group — sometimes, one or two key connections are enough.
Here’s where to start:
Smaller Online Groups
Large Facebook or Discord groups can be great resources, but if you feel lost in the crowd, look for smaller, focused spaces.
Genre-Specific Communities
Writers in your genre understand the specific craft and marketing challenges you’ll face.
Workshops, Conferences, & Classes
Even if you only walk away with one new connection, that’s a win.
Social Media
Post a request: “I’m writing my first middle-grade fantasy novel. Looking for others to do writing sprints with!”
You’d be surprised how many writers are looking for the same thing.
If you’re feeling isolated, I can’t encourage you enough to take one small step toward finding support.
Writing may be solitary, but it doesn’t have to be lonely.
Who are the writers in your corner?
If you’re still searching, what kind of support would help you most?
Hit Reply and let me know.
Slade
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