Red flags are the hard-earned tools you've acquired in past relationships. Why carry around these tools and not use them to change your negative relationship patterns? There are a few things you can choose to control in your relationships.

When you consider the eye-blink in time in which we dwell, how can it be that we have come to know one another? What are the Chances? What are the Odds? Stop this week to consider the precision and force with which unimaginable abundance still manages to find you -- the rarity and perfection of the connections between souls in the briefest parcels of time.

When you're in a relationship with someone who is operating from a reality where he believes he is not powerful, then he is not powerful. His beliefs — the words he uses to describe and communicate those beliefs — manifest his experience, his reality, and all the outcomes of those stated intentions.

My “Truths” about Soul Mates and Relationships -- Some general chunks of wisdom I have observed during relationship readings and couples counseling, and/or truths I have learned about soul mates the hard way — through my own personal experiences.